Why do girls only seem to date scrawny guys?

Well sir, the answer isn't quite so simple. A large reason is that in our society today, woman(girls) learn to respond to femininity. It's laced into our culture and sadly because there are so many subconscious messages shooting at girls from every direction, that at a very young age they learn that a feminine guy is more attractive. For starters there is a general war in our culture against masculinity. You see it in our schools. Little boys who are wired to be energetic, playful, rough, and rowdy(to be boys). Little boys are wired to make guns and spears out of sticks and have mock battles(something that is natural to little boys. It makes a boy feel powerful. Boys like weapons). But in our school system all of these behaviors are seen as bad and is punished. Where as girls are more apt to be able to sit quietly in a clroom for longer periods of time, it's not in the nature of a boy to be able to do so. So "unruly" behavior is continually punished, until eventually boys are taught it is better to be, quiet, calm, meek, and more like a girl. The masculine behavior is "bad". Instead of finding ways to compensate for the differences in both es, they just lump everyone together, being that girls are milder and easier to deal with, they take that approach. The huge sudden cases of every little boy having ADD that happened over the last 20 years, I bet if you took a good look at it, most of the time it was probably boys being boys. This is also the reason why there are so many weak men in the world today. Men who don't stand for what they believe in, who can't and won't ert themselves and how they are feeling to their wives(or anyone else). This is why you see so many households run strictly by woman. Where as it should be something that you run as a unit, you see it is more and more common where the woman "wears the pants". And it's not the fault of woman really. They are just picking up on all the subconscious messages flying around, that they have been learning since they were little girls. A "mild, meek, man is better. He is more safe, he is more predictable, he is controllable". Then you have woman wondering why there is no pion in their marriage. Why their man doesn't (and never did) sweep them off their feet. Why he is a just a boring, limp, do nothing, person, who spends too much time watching sports. Reason, he has been socially castrated and asked to be that way. Sports is probably the only thing that makes him feel masculine, makes him feel alive, gets his blood going. You always hear "where'd all the real men go?" You asked them to be girls. Why else do you think that the men thought of today as the most attractive are, hairless, baby-face, guys, with smooth skin and soft rosy cheeks. 40+ years ago, hair on a mans chest was seen as y, virile, and desirable. Now it's "disgusting". It's been wired in that masculinity is "bad, and dangerous". It's a "dangerous" man who will protect you and your family. It's a "dangerous" man who will fight for what he believes in. It's a "dangerous" man who will fight for your marriage. It's a "dangerous" man who will continue to make that effort to thrill their woman, and sweep her off her feet. And by dangerous I don't mean your typical bad boy. I mean a man who is masculine in spirit, masculinity that is seen as "dangerous" by society. A "dangerous", adventurous, spirited man, is a real man. So finally to answer your question, woman are attracted to feminine men, because of the way they are programmed since little girls. Don't worry though friend. There are still woman out there who like, and look for masculinity, and there are woman who everyday, realize theres something stale and wrong with the feminine guys they usually date, and who make the switch. And I'm not just talking about feminine in appearance, because some people can't help that, but I'm talking about feminine in spirit. The guys who don't dare to dream big, who aren't bold enough to put themselves out there, who run away when things get rough, who can't take responsibility for their actions(namely creating single mothers and then taking off). The guys who wont face any of their fears, but instead hide behind their jobs, and lead cold, shallow, shells of lives. The guys who won't play with their children, but instead choose to ignore them; because that's easier than investing in them and interacting, and it carries no risks.